can i be honest im actually NOT sure at all.............. i've never had stable relationships in my life like EVER but i think like if we've been talking for more than 2 years. we've established a ride or die relationship. thats all

when we talk very often together

they play games w/ me or have me added on like... video games

OH THIS IS REALLY DIFFICULT On my part; when im either comfortable enough to talk to them out of nowhere or share about my sp/in with them . Im highly paranoid and anxious so i never know when someone considers me a friend but Yah

when they just talk to me like a normal person idk what u want me to tell

whwn they basically don’t judge me and freely let me talk ab what I want w them

when i notice i feel a little more open about myself

I think when they start giving me things they usually only give to friends I consider us close. Like if you’re randomly giving me your private twitter and your simplyplural and adding me on everything when you usually don’t do those things I’m like oh sweet :3 Yahoo!

when i want to talk to them actively