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okay long post ahead sorry
hello - I just wanted to come on and address a few things. I understand this won’t have a lot of reach since this is a very small account, but at the very least it’s something to refer back to. I don’t plan on ever coming back here or being a part of the community surrounding it again, this is not any sort of attempt at a "comeback", I just have a couple of things to address and then I'll be gone again. I took everyone's words to heart and have been taking time for myself to focus on healing, and it has been really helpful. I understand now a lot of issues came from the influence of others who didn't have my best interests at heart. This isn't an excuse at all, it's just to say, yeah, you were right, I needed space to myself to improve, and I have been improving since I chose to take it.
As for what I wanted to address I will try to keep it brief. People using my name to attack others and to discredit and harm my friends, who were the ones to make me aware of the former issue also. I only know of one person who received hateful messages from someone claiming to be me, but if there have been any others, let this be reassurance that this was not me and I do not stand by what this person said. I think what was said was disgusting, and I think the person hiding behind anonymity and pretending to be someone else to get away with it is cowardly. I am almost certain of who it is, because they cannot resist the urge to brag, and I want them to know they have no right to treat others that way, even more so with the skeletons I know are in their closet. I have no interest in drama, but if anyone who was affected by this person wants to resolve the matter privately with me, they can shoot me a message and we can do that!
and for the latter issue; as simple as I can say it, please stop treating my friends (and not friends) poorly "because" of me. I have seen people I don't even know get dogpiled for being "my friend" based on assumptions and they are ignored when they try to clear the air. Please stop that, I keep my social circle very small now and most of the people being treated this way have nothing to do with me. Regardless of your opinions on me, it's not fair to them, they don't even know me. For the people that are my friends, please treat them with decency also. They know me very well and they know all the details of my journey to recovery & what I'm recovering from, and have chosen to support me on that journey. This doesn't mean they support any bad that I have done or agree with everything I say - they are not extensions of me, they are their own people. It just means they have a lot of compassion for me which I am very grateful for. Please don't allow that to get in the way of how you treat them. Give them some good grace and listen to what they have to say and treat them with kindness like you would anyone else. It's not fair for their own struggles to be silenced over any of this, they deserve to be heard too.
that's all, I'll keep an eye out for messages for a little while but after that, back to staying off this site for good!
are you gonna address this or...?
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omg anon you're so cute. sending me one of the most well known IP grabbers there is. that's adorableeee you're learning! you want me to click it anyways for you as a treat?
hi moco ^_^
helloooo what’s up
https://retrospring.net/akikasa/a/111987091603851404 also may i add that she’s dating someone who says the d slur as a non … — plus she agreed with someone saying that my friend was sexualizing her trauma. spoiler alert she obviously wasn’t at all and… https://retrospring.net/@akikasa/a/111987509283077708
You’re clearly desperate for any sort of rebuttal and it’s hard to watch damn. this changes nothing, you’re still a proshipper and you still manipulated people. (Cont in my answer)
If your only response is to drop my severe trauma response as proof then okay, you’ve just made yourself look worse. You conveniently left out the part where it only applies to myself and not anyone else, and the part where I discussed it being a trauma thing, and the part where I discussed how long I’ve already been in recovery for it. instead you chose to just drop it with no context to make me what, look bad, for being a repeated sexual abuse victim and responding like one? you’re crazy I’m afraid
https://retrospring.net/@abyssgard/a/111982736143540476
just a reminder about this person, as she seems to have decided to just ignore this until people forget. don’t forget, don’t let her wait it out. I understand this is bad timing given the other, larger callout at the moment, but I believe both things deserve attention.
blerp
you only gave proof of this person shipping weird stuff. not sorry but nobody gaf
That’s crazy. If you read a little more you’d see the part where I specifically said I understood if the second part of my claims weren’t believed by everyone because I wouldn’t be providing much proof (specifically to protect the victims who don’t want their stories shared)
you are either ignorant, his friend, or both. do better
logging off for a bit
bleh
https://rentry.co/hidemisnote
Please read. I'm sorry for not being active. This is important. Please share also.
Thank you for your time, and sorry for more "drama" on your timelines. This is serious, though, not just drama.
Why do you make being controversial ur entire personality trust me nobody cares
this is the one hate ask you could muster… I am disappointed Anon do better
omg hi i just saw u followed me :0 im assuming youre from sntrycord right?
yes yes hi!!
I would but it’s past midnight sorry :( I’m cozy in bed :(
bark
this is adorable wtf
bau bau bau bau 🐾 !!
woah… so true
proshipping isnt a cancellable offense yall are so annoying
thanks anon this sure is an interesting take
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