aw thank you!! ur so sweet ! I was at work as of the day I'm writing this and it was OK, I think getting yelled at by patients for things out of my control has helped me be a more "temperamental" person. my neighbor the other day invited me over for some tea and she was talking about very very intense things about her childhood and studied my reaction / expressions and was like "how are you so nonjudgmental about this" and in my head AND out loud I say that part of being a human is just having a tapestry of weird, zany, awful experiences so I can't really judge. I like knowing that this is something I can tap into at work and in personal life with intentionality