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Aiko · 12 answers · 7mo

How do you find attractive in a person?

I love seeing a man who take the initiative first—since I am always the shy and awkward one—and when he can carry the conversation well. I also find someone who can do the flirty banter in a fun but respectful manner very attractive. Like, okay, handsome, go make my heart bzzzzzzz.

When a man could positioned himself in different situations. Make it serious or hilarious. It'd be nice if they knew about lots of stuffs, because I enjoy talking with one who could getaway with any topics given out of my curiosity. Most importantly, an extra point will be given if they could make my hopeless romantic delusions happen without even trying.

The way they carry themselves! I have always thought confidence is hot. In some ways.

if they can carry themselves well while mingling with people, how they share opinions on serious matters (intelligence is hella attractive), being the dominant one yet very patient, understanding and good at handling matters are just so chefs kiss. all of those attractiveness will be doubled if they can also speak english well! :D

When they're smart but never judging my knowledge. Instead, they are teaching me things I never knew before.

I always love seeing how one interacts with their surroundings, the way they converse and put their words are sometimes amusing and more often than not, I can casually deem them attractive by looking at how they mingle. I think someone who has a good composure and knows how to carry a conversation is extremely attractive.

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