As humans, we naturally yearn for love; the heart demands to be loved back, or it will inflict pain on itself. But when I really think about it, I’d likely choose someone I love for a somewhat selfish reason- to prove that I'm capable of loving, and also learn to be selfless in the process. For me, loving someone means dedicating and re-dedicating yourself to them again and again. It might sounds exhausting, but if you truly love them, it won't be a rotten job, would it?