I could write an essay about this, but I'll refrain - I'm very close with my maternal grandmother, even if she doesn't always understand me and my world, and I can appreciate but also dislike my maternal grandfather, who has become quite rude over the years towards most people (I personally dislike it, but I try to ignore it for the most part). my paternal grandmother I'm quite distant with - we're very different people, and we have difficulties understanding each other often, but we try to respect one another (or at least I try to respect her); I'm sad that I had become quite distant with my paternal grandfather by the point he passed, but I feel I'd at least started to pick up the slack on my part and I feel okay with where we were when I last saw him.