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ネイサン · 4 answers · 6mo

One thing that still confuses me is that I had a past oomf who was anti-proship but followed obvious proshippers and comshippers, and was shocked when they "found out" they were proshippers 😭

I think there are a lot of people out there who probably don't actually care about the topic, but have to act like they do publicly (often to extremes) to appease / avoid backlash from friends. But that always makes me wonder if a friendship is worth keeping if you feel inclined to act negatively just to sustain it, or if that person is in the wrong regardless for going against their friends DNI irregardless of putting on a front to suggest otherwise. Though I suppose it is none of my business.

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