first of all i can just say ofc there's nothing wrong with you. being in a relationship or not doesn't define someone's value and you have to learn to live your life without looking at what others are doing or comparing yourself to them (this isnt easy to achieve but its important to live a happy life). ppl have different standards and priorities and you gotta think about what you really want without letting others lead your thoughts. what if you dont truly want to date or you arent ready for it, and this wish only comes from comparing yourself? And if you want to date and you are ready for it, you gotta know that even if you put yourself out there, it might take a lot of time to find someone you truly like anyway and that is Fine. there isnt a countdown or a deadline to find a partner or to experience certain things, so don't pressure yourself or think less of yourself bc that's not true at all, and anyone who judges you for it is a loser (and a slave to other ppl's judgments)