hmmm probably the panic! what’s going on, what’s happening, HOW did it happen, someone please stop it, this CAN’T be happening, please help, don’t just stand there, why poor helpless them, won’t someone please stop them from swelling up more and more?? but, of course, there ISN’T any stopping it, and they have to learn to very quickly swallow that fear (and fail trying) because they’re only going to get bigger and bigger, fuller and fuller, no matter how much they want it to stop…