little lover · 29d
i like this one girl a lot and she’s aware of it, but i often see her flirting with others and it makes me feel really insecure about myself :( i dont want to chase after her if she doesnt have any intention of taking me seriously, how should i open this conversation up to her without overstepping?
hi friend! 1st, i'm sorry this is happening ): 2nd, what i would suggest is asking her if she's serious about your feelings, or if it's okay for you to court her romantically? some people may not take crush confessions as invitations for possible relationships, so maybe that's the case for her. additionally, you can tell her that you don't mean to restrict her, but it does make you sad that they're a little flirty, given you two have recently talked about feelings & you're hoping for something special in the future.
