⊹ ۫ . 𐔌 chiquitita, tell me what's wrong?
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little lover · 6d
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little lover · 27d
charmy who are your close friends, what are your niche and favorite interests!!! the world wants to know who this superstar is a little more!! we love you!!
little lover · 28d
Was i wrong in getting upset at this? Hi, i'm your mutual lol recently i saw a movie (The Substance) that i loved! And as soon as i watched it, i knew my friend J would love it too! I told J to watch it together, she said yes but never had time, i mentioned if she wanted to watch with me a few times and she said yes but was busy with work, ok, all good but then i enter letterboxd and see she watched the movie without me? I asked her and she said yes, she watched it. I feel hurt as i was excited to watch together, is it dumb or am i in the right place to be a bit hurt?
hi friend, thanks for sending a message! what i will say is you are absolutely not in the wrong for being a little upset. it's disappointing to be disregarded by a friend, especially if plans were made & they went on to watch without you, so feeling dejected about it is normal. but also it's not something to end a friendship over either so you don't have to take any drastic measures like that, but maybe ask them to be more transparent since that hurt your feelings? hope this helps!
little lover · 28d
what do i do if i want to go ooc with my partner ): how do i bring that conversation up i’m so scared eek!!!!
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hi friend, omg that's such a big step!!! as always, my first word of advice is to speak up! if you & them have already been sorta ooc to an extent, then try talking about it! i know conversations like these can be oh-so daunting, but don't be shy! your partner is the #1 person who would never judge you!
little lover · 29d
i just came back to rp and im so nervous. what am i even supposed to tweet about? how do i go about meeting people?
hi friend! i just came back too so we're in the same boat lol. something i think would help is to come up with an intricate au, something that'll give you room to get creative & branch out! i.e, i have a mutual with an idol au, so if you did that, you could collab with other idols or build a 'fanbase' of some sort. another good idea would be making an interaction call & going on follow sprees! people are quick to follow back, so it should be no problem. hope this helps, & good luck out there!
little lover · 29d
How do you register here?
little lover · 29d
i like this one girl a lot and she’s aware of it, but i often see her flirting with others and it makes me feel really insecure about myself :( i dont want to chase after her if she doesnt have any intention of taking me seriously, how should i open this conversation up to her without overstepping?
hi friend! 1st, i'm sorry this is happening ): 2nd, what i would suggest is asking her if she's serious about your feelings, or if it's okay for you to court her romantically? some people may not take crush confessions as invitations for possible relationships, so maybe that's the case for her. additionally, you can tell her that you don't mean to restrict her, but it does make you sad that they're a little flirty, given you two have recently talked about feelings & you're hoping for something special in the future.
little lover · 29d
what do i do if i’m scared of having an important conversation with my significant other? it fills me with dread to what it could do to our relationship
hi friend! big talks with your boo are totally scary, but what i would suggest is to go into it level-headed, & with a neutral tone if it's a rough topic. if your s/o isn't quite good with these convos, you might have to lead with something like “i hope this doesn't change anything, but i need to get this off my chest. are you okay to have an important talk about something?” tone-tags help too!
little lover · 29d
how do i spend three weeks without my boyfriend? i go away for three weeks and im worried he won’t love me when i come back );
hi friend! first, take care & be safe! & here's what i would suggest. 1. reassurance! though you won't be around for some time, it's good to remind your partner that you'll always be around for the long run, even if there's been a bit of a hiccup. or if you're worried they'll lose feelings, it's okay to ask for reassurance too. 2. check-ins! if time allows you, a check-in with your lover sporadically to make sure they're alright while you're away is a good idea too. distance is scary, but it does make the heart grow fonder. they're going to love you the same, i believe it!
little lover · 1mo
there's a friend of mine that i care about a lot and have the smallest crush on but i can't help but be a certain way around them even though i want to make sure they know i can also take care of them and not just them care for me. how can i show them that in a way they will take it seriously and not treat me like a baby?
hi friend! the best way to show them is to be totally straightforward! let them
know how you feel, and create space for your crush to feel comfortable being
taken care of. you can do this by easing your way into it with conversation.
remind them that it's not permanent — but you just want the care and comfort
you feel with them to be mutual on their end too.