Oh, dear. I am so sorry it happened to you. No one deserves such treatment in the first place. I wish everyone can man up a little and talk it out in person instead of sending hateful message while wearing anonymous mask. For I also believe that we don't know what one's going through the day, and being kind costs nothing. I am genuinely sorry it happened to you. If in any case you need someone to talk to or a place to vent, I wouldn't mind.

As one who happened to be in your shoes, I kept telling myself that anything they sent doesn't define me. People make mistakes, of course, as we are human after all. And feeling bad or just simply sad, that's valid, too. But I hope you will find strength from your surroundings to get through it, ya? Jangan ditanggapin, jangan dikasih panggung, jangan terlalu dipikirkan. Easier than done, I know, but I believe you are strong enough to fight back even just by deleting the messages. I hope this helps, dear. You'll get through this, and again, I am so sorry it happened to you.