jey | Retrospring

potato fries · 2h

Could you like explain your choices cuz rn it just seems like you want to be different or start drama (actual question not meant to be accusatory)

i don't need to explain anything, not when there's a whole ass summary on the side of the chart. y'all just need to accept people can have different opinions. you're all in my space so leave.

jey · 2m

potato fries · 5h

You know notp means strongly disliking a ship right? So it's normal that people will misunderstand your intentions

isn't that why there's a summary on the side? and it means "not one true pairing" it's EITHER strongly disliking someone OR preferring another pairing instead. i'm the latter. can we not justify the hate train?

jey · 5h

rowan · 13h

hi i'm so sorry for all the negative attention you've been getting, you don't deserve any of it 😭😭 i hope you're doing alright!! i'm a bnber but shipping has always been for fun for me (like i read pretty much anything), and it's really upsetting to see how so many people have been getting unfairly upset just for a difference in opinion. i don't know if this helps to hear or even if you need it at all or anything, but you're completely valid for your ships and posting whatever you want and curating your own fandom space, and you've done nothing wrong. again i hope you're alright, and that you're able to take comfort in the people that do support you, and that the negativity dies down soon. like i said i'm a bnber so you probably wouldn't want to be moots with me haha, but please know i'm sending you so much love and support!!!

(and i'm sorry if any of this came off the wrong way, i didn't mean it to, tldr i just hope you're okay and i wanted to send some positivity your way)

hi, please don't ever feel sorry, it wasn't you who was being mean, right? you shouldn't feel burdened by how some of your fellow bnbers reacted, they are a person of their own and so are you so please, do not apologise. and thank you for coming here, without anonymity, i really appreciate it. actually, i kinda expected a bit of a reaction when i posted that, i just didn't expect for it to blew up and somehow got into the wrong audience but everything already happened, the only thing i can do now is to move on, so i'm hoping everyone would too. what happened was scary but at the same time i'm a bit thankful that it gave me a free list of blocklist, it makes it easier to curate my timeline more so really, there is nothing to worry about.

you know, i actually don't know you but thank you and i don't see you being a bnber a problem, you've been nice checking on me and being comforting and that's all that matter to me.i also have a bnbers friend, we're different but we get along well. this whole thing is actually pretty weird and unreal to me, shipping should be fun and it was never meant to be so serious. what's actually funny to me was receiving rs about hating shb and bnb. i'm actually an allin and rosin aside from being a wdgs, kinda crazy about hb (the type to instantly feel better at the sight of his ➕💬 messages), haha. but it would be crazier if i hate my ult's chemi, isn't it? i don't hate them, nor dislike them, i just don't ship them romantically. but that doesn't mean i don't understand bnbers for liking them. i've got eyes, i can see their appeal. hate and dislike are strong words, i keep on telling everyone but i've been too ambitious to think people would listen. i just hope that no one used this whole thing to hate on other members, i can tolerate people laughing at my preferences but hating on the members themselves, i hope not. anyway, this got longer than expected and became a rant message.

all i'm saying is, i don't dislike you, for being a bnber, you can still be friends with me if you want to, i'm not that cruel or petty. i hope this reply finds you well.

jey · 7h

potato fries · 8h

i don't like your ship chart either but baby close your rs people are so mean out here 😭

thank you for worrying, i'm fine. i actually don't care that much. i'd rather people say their thoughts to my face even with the guise of anonymity.

jey · 8h

potato fries · 9h

Loud and wrong bro LOUD AND WRONG

having different interests is never wrong as long as it's not illegal.

jey · 8h

potato fries · 11h

just say u hate hanbin and go instead of using him as your shipping tool

man i'm an allindan (heavy) and a rosin. hope that helps.

jey · 8h

potato fries · 10h

Wth is that shipping chart bro.. please tell me ur joking cause how..

i have a different preferences. i don't know why i should explain that because there was a summary at the far left, if you ever missed it.

jey · 8h

potato fries · 11h

im not on the rps community but stumbled across your tweets on my timeline i guess because many people were mentioning jiwoong? my algorithm is full of him lol i didnt wanted to add anything else to the original tweet because i can’t imagine how stressful and upsetting the situation has been for you :(
something that has been lost on fandoms is the freedom to ship whatever you want imo now there are waay to many people who are fixated in one ship and end up bashing others… i think this might have to do with them not being able to differentiate between fiction and reality? anyway i hope you don’t get too upset by what people have said, celebrate what you like :) your ships are valid and they are cute!!! only people who hate jw are mad about woonghao tbh just ignore them

hi anon, i don't see a lot in mine but trust, i am doing my best to defend each and every member mentioned. although i think there was a different issue going on at the same time. it a chaos, really. thank you for worrying about me and saying kind words. i'm doing well, don't worry, i'm not letting it get too much to me. (:

jey · 8h

potato fries · 12h

its funny that you dont know any of the real haobin tea but will fight tooth and nail to prove theyre not dating and in love with other people

actually, i don't think i'm fighting to disprove your ship, i just ship mine and obviously, i would fight for my ships, you would have done the exact same thing like what you're doing rn.

jey · 8h

potato fries · 12h

I was so happy to to see gyubtael in your otp I thought that no one see the them as a ship expect me and my friends so ot made my so happy !!!! Also you we so alot of common otp !!

i'm actually new to them and i regret not looking at their direction sooner. i love them a lot, i'm so glad to meet a fellow who also likes gyubtael.

jey · 8h

potato fries · 12h

This is my first ask and kinda new to rps. After seeing the discourse on the timeline it got me curious about jyungneul. If you don't mind can you please recommend me some of their good fics.

hi, welcome. i don't know if i'm the best person to ask, considering the whole fiasco but for short, cute fics, i recommend vihaolin's fics. but if you want a long one (200k words) i suggest between a rock and a hard place by peredusa. enjoy reading.

links:
vihaolin - https://archiveofourown.org/users/lovesunoo/pseuds/vihaolin
between a rock and a hard place - https://archiveofourown.org/works/47403367/chapters/119450413

jey · 8h

potato fries · 8h

Mattbiners acting like they have better manners at doing rps than bnbers as if y'all didn't hating hao on priv and accuse him a homewrecker since day-1, most bnbers love matt and mattbin as brothers i can't say the same with y'all acting like hao is a threat to mattbin so you ship him with other men instead how pathetic

someday, i wish you all would accuse me of something i actually did since you are all in my space and i would appreciate an argument directed at me and that was actually done by me. but since you're here already, let me indulge you a bit.

1/8 of your shippers is a lot bigger than our whole community, still, i don't know what you're talking about since i haven't seen any of your accusations myself.
even if you think we are toxic shippers, you also cannot deny that it goes both ways, you can't be all innocent here when i, myself, got attacked because of a shipping chart.
actually our only problem here is my shipping chart, you cannot even bring me proper evidence of me being hateful, instead baselessly accuses our whole community instead where i have no control over.
you are actually in my space, as i've said multiple times. and i haven't stepped out of here ever since, it's y'all that keeps on coming here.
haven't seen any mattbiner that hates hao, i need proof to back that up. and wow, good for y'all for liking matt, but don't make it sound like we owe y'all that. put some respect to any of the members' names, will you?
i shipped jyungneul before sungseok, can you stop making a whole story on how i am living my life as a shipper when you don't even have anything to back that up, and even if you found one, make sure that it is something that me or my circle did.

jey · 8h

potato fries · 13h

We love rikjyung and jyungneul

☺️🫂 (with consent)

jey · 8h

potato fries · 13h

Okay but are you team rikjyung or jyungrik?

gasps in rikjyung. (but i actually don't mind jyungrik)

jey · 13h

potato fries · 13h

Bestie you are so brave..thank you for speak up abt jn and ss 🤟

that's nothing, really. please don't compliment me for fighting on tl, hence i'd advice y'all more to be more patient and calm unlike me. 🥹 but thanks anyway.