rowan · 1d
hi i'm so sorry for all the negative attention you've been getting, you don't deserve any of it 😭😭 i hope you're doing alright!! i'm a bnber but shipping has always been for fun for me (like i read pretty much anything), and it's really upsetting to see how so many people have been getting unfairly upset just for a difference in opinion. i don't know if this helps to hear or even if you need it at all or anything, but you're completely valid for your ships and posting whatever you want and curating your own fandom space, and you've done nothing wrong. again i hope you're alright, and that you're able to take comfort in the people that do support you, and that the negativity dies down soon. like i said i'm a bnber so you probably wouldn't want to be moots with me haha, but please know i'm sending you so much love and support!!!
(and i'm sorry if any of this came off the wrong way, i didn't mean it to, tldr i just hope you're okay and i wanted to send some positivity your way)
hi, please don't ever feel sorry, it wasn't you who was being mean, right? you shouldn't feel burdened by how some of your fellow bnbers reacted, they are a person of their own and so are you so please, do not apologise. and thank you for coming here, without anonymity, i really appreciate it. actually, i kinda expected a bit of a reaction when i posted that, i just didn't expect for it to blew up and somehow got into the wrong audience but everything already happened, the only thing i can do now is to move on, so i'm hoping everyone would too. what happened was scary but at the same time i'm a bit thankful that it gave me a free list of blocklist, it makes it easier to curate my timeline more so really, there is nothing to worry about.
you know, i actually don't know you but thank you and i don't see you being a bnber a problem, you've been nice checking on me and being comforting and that's all that matter to me.i also have a bnbers friend, we're different but we get along well. this whole thing is actually pretty weird and unreal to me, shipping should be fun and it was never meant to be so serious. what's actually funny to me was receiving rs about hating shb and bnb. i'm actually an allin and rosin aside from being a wdgs, kinda crazy about hb (the type to instantly feel better at the sight of his ➕💬 messages), haha. but it would be crazier if i hate my ult's chemi, isn't it? i don't hate them, nor dislike them, i just don't ship them romantically. but that doesn't mean i don't understand bnbers for liking them. i've got eyes, i can see their appeal. hate and dislike are strong words, i keep on telling everyone but i've been too ambitious to think people would listen. i just hope that no one used this whole thing to hate on other members, i can tolerate people laughing at my preferences but hating on the members themselves, i hope not. anyway, this got longer than expected and became a rant message.
all i'm saying is, i don't dislike you, for being a bnber, you can still be friends with me if you want to, i'm not that cruel or petty. i hope this reply finds you well.
