Is the androgynous aspect of obesity a major draw for you? like you pile enough pounds of thicc jiggly curvy lush lard onto someone's hips breasts belly & ass that it becomes kinda amorphous indistinct & irrelevant what gender they originally were? After their most physically distinct & sharply binary bodily features are softened submerged & subsumed beneath all-enveloping fat what does it really even matter right?