thank you for your answer, didn’t think you would indulge me hahah. but yeah i’ve seen too much people here being completely dead silent or acting bitter when it’s yj the one wearing fem clothing (or simply just not looking masculine enough in their standard) while also constantly feminizing bg. kinda sad if i can say cuz top can be feminine and pretty too? nggak harus pokoknya dia top dia harus ganteng maskulin. i mean outside fics and aus appreciating them irl is more important no? ofc it’s okay to potray him whatever the writer wants in fics but why also doing it to his real self too when we all know he’s clearly not and very much okay with being feminine even proud about it. more like seeing him as his own person too but still tysm for the answer!

trying to open a lighthearted conversation w u. wdyt sama rahasia umum? silent agreement? kalau yeongyuist tend to over feminize bg and over masculine yj padahal irl they both are feminine in their own way (re: bg w how he looks and yj w how he acts and bring himself his style etc) kenapa kebanyakan orang disini bahkan para big accs rps nya so against in using effeminate term for yj 🤔 even just using the word pretty for him dan ini di luar aus or fics aka just how people potray him daily menurut lo kenapa they act like that? is it because they see yj is a top so he must be masculine? tapi bukannya kalau gitu toxic masculinity n heteronormative ya? nggak respecting yj juga? pls enlighten me soalnya setiap ada konten yj looking pretty there almost none people talking abt it here some even acting bitter just because he wears skirt it’s so disheartening to see and like they just like him when he met their narrative of masc yj not when he’s being feminine and being himself