I think the only notp you've mentioned to me is jungseok so I'm guessing it's them...? honestly the only advice I can give is to learn to appreciate all ships platonically. in the same way that a lot of sfws will see obviously homosexual activities and go "oh they're such good FRIENDS!!!!!" you just need to do that with notps 😔 or perhaps take a paring knife to your following list and surround yourself with more jooseokers to offset any other ships that may cross your tl 🔪 (/j... unless?)