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whisperer · 29d

it's been days but i just wanted to say that these people who keep on denying kaveh's femininity is just homophobic and misogynistic. their behavior is downright textbook definition of homophobia and misogyny towards gay men especially feminine presenting gay men. do they not know that homophobia was literally rooted from the idea of hating men being feminine and not just because of them being attracted with the same sex? the amount of gay men i know including myself, were told by families, schools, and society in general that us being gay is tolerated as long as we don't present ourselves too feminine (cross-dressing, mannerisms, lingo, etc.). popular drag queens themselves who are considered to be femme in and out of drag are victims of this homophobia and misogyny. other people outside of the gay men community don't know this but feminine presenting gay men are often disliked by other "masculine" gay men because they want their relationship to not be "clocked" and want to be with another man who they think can pass as a straight man like themself, which is literally enforcing "heteronormativity" among gay people. yet people here on hoyotwt who are not even gay men mind you, would berate anyone for shipping fictional characters that are masculine and feminine saying that we are trying to make gay relationships heteronormative when that's not the case irl with gay men lol. some of these gay men themselves hate feminine gay men and would seek out masc gay men because they want someone who can pass as straight. that's the definition of enforcing heteronormativity in gay relationships!!! and having both masc + fem presenting gay men in a relationship is not the heteronormativity that these genshin players think lol. what's heteronormative about a gay man being feminine???? when all these years homophobia stemmed from the idea of hating men being feminine. anyways that's all, fem kaveh enjoyers have a good day and to those ppl attacking you and disagreeing with fem kaveh, you can all go fuck yourselves because what exactly do you bitches know about being a gay man?

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THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS; thank you for sharing your own experience with me as well. i truly have nothing else to add, i am just putting “‼️‼️‼️” under it right now because, DAMMIT, for how LONG these people’s grass wasn’t touched? you wrapped the whole issue in one clever ask. it’s sad that to defend something that doesn’t have to be even defended, some people have to find such harmful arguments. i wish you all good, anon & i am grateful for you coming to me & sending this.

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