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Bara · 13 answers · 6mo

When you feel upset or when you’re not really in a good mood, how do you like to be comforted?

I think I would tell them first that I need a time to recognize my feelings or my mood, and then, I would let them know what happened or what’s the reason with my current situation. And of course, I’d like to be accompanied.

depends, sometimes i want to be accompanied but most of the time, i’d like to be given some space to calm myself down first.

By giving me some time and space to calm down first (of course with communicate before hand) and then they can accompany me later on after that

depends really but i usually ask to be left alone at first but that doesn’t mean i want to be completely ignored by them. like, maybe interact with me a little bit here and there then check up on me once in awhile, that’d make me feel that despite me acting weird, they still care for me! 🥺

I think I usually would say or ask, so it depends on the situation. I just wish to be respected for my wishes. If I wish to be left alone, please do so. If I wish to rant about what made me upset, please allow me to rant about it, or if I asked to just do something fun then we can do something fun.

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