I don't try hard at all. I just pick a shirt and pair of pants at random in the morning and run with it, and occasionally put on my Starfleet badge as well. Even on special occasions, my parents or some other authority figure usually have to force me to dress up despite my protests. When I'm buying clothes, I sometimes go for things that look "nicer" or different or represent a special interest, and I have considered experimenting with dressing more feminine, but to care about how I look beyond that would add unnecessary stress to my life. I already have enough of that.