I hope this won’t come across as rude but this is something that must be said - you are completely right about it him. As crude as it is, they crave a fictional dick so much so that they have to leech off a woman who canonically HATES him. They self insert and imagine getting fucked and romanced by him and that’s beyond embarrassing. If they want to self insert, they should have chosen any of the more legitimate and actually well written het ships out there. But my recommendation to them is just - please attempt to get a dick in real life if they’re so desperate for it. It might have been years for them since the last dick down session and I can underhand why because I wouldn’t wanna fuck someone so unbearable, but they should make that a target and stop harassing minors and real women on the internet over gojo.