Like, it’s no secret that sb liked bg’s 943 hair because he’s mentioned it numerous times, but one of the longest-running headcanons in the sgyvist community—and I mean for YEARS—is that sb doesn’t just think grey hair suits bg, but that he desperately wants to see bg’s dyed hair for his own enjoyment because that’s his type. And for bg to casually drop that this is actually canon… is kinda insane.

It’s perfectly normal and commonplace to compliment your friends like, “oh, this style suits you!” but it’s a completely different thing to nag them and look forward to them sporting your favorite styling on them. With friends, it’s not that big of a deal. I know for myself, I couldn’t care less how my friends dress or what color they dye their hair—it’s their body, not mine. As long as they take care of themselves in the bare minimum, I don’t have much interest. Of course, I have my own standards of aesthetics, so I might suggest to them what I think they look best in, but I don’t really care if they don’t listen, and neither do I get excited if they do lol.

Usually, it’s when you like someone and appreciate their beauty on a personal level that it benefits you for them to change their style to suit your tastes. It’s the psychology of, for instance, liking horn-rimmed glasses and leather jackets on guys, so you might gift those items to your boyfriend in hopes of seeing him wear it for your own visual satisfaction. That’s basically what sb is doing when he kept on suggesting and convincing bg to bleach his hair because that’s what’s most appealing to him. And bg knows this. He knows that if he changes his style to sb’s liking, he’s going to receive even more love from him—not that sb’s love is conditional, but bg knows it’s going to make sb extra happy, and naturally, he’d want to please him and look good for him.