"are non-fandom friends aware that u write fanfic?"

lol absolutely fucking not i think i'd rather die. i've had some friends admit to me actually that they used to write or read rpf (and sometimes kpop rpf) but that was all like in the context of middle school or maybe early hs. the thought of my friends finding out i still actively write kpop rpf is MORTIFYING i also just like having these two sides very separated anyway so yeah over my dead body