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Jaskar Rahadi · 5 answers · 6mo

I just saw this post that said, "your love language is based off of what you didn't receive as a child" and I can't stop thinking about it. What do you think?

I think that's make sense sih. Karena kita pasti ngerasa ada kekosongan disana dan pada akhirnya kita mau dapetin itu dan secara ga sadar kita juga menganggap hal itu akan bikin orang lain merasa senang dan dicintai. Outpunya jadi yang sering kita sebut "love language"

I am uncertain if I am qualified to provide the correct answer in this context. However, I believe mine is shaped by how my parents have treated me since I was a young child. The way they have shown and are showing their love to me has even become the very essence of how I express affection too. Through them, I discovered that conveying how we feel to others does not necessarily require the use of words alone all the time, for we can show our love through our deeds.

Menurutku sih nggak ya. Maksudnya kayak misal mereka semasa kecil sukanya physical touch sama keluarga, bisa jadi besarnya akan mengingkan hal yang sama dengan pasangan dong karena keterbiasaan itu? Jadi mungkin tergantung juga sih 🤔

It's not like that in my case. My love language is based on what I feel best at when trying to deliver an affection

menurut gua, nggak juga sih... gua lebih ke mirroring treatment kalo sama orang tua. gimana sikap mereka, gua juga sedemikia rupa buat sebaliknya

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