Anonymouse Friend:)) · 1mo
Hiii. I just want you to know that nobody hates you. A lot of people in the BSD fandom have gone IA because of school, work, because Elon made this app shit, or because of other personal reasons. A lot of your followers follow 200-1,000 people so they might not see your posts often to interact with. A lot of others just don't know how to interact or don't do anything other than like posts
(No shade to those people ofc but some people just don't like commenting) Other people who you see get a lot of interactions on the tl usually have a lot of fans or a singular fan who love to send a bunch of RS/strawpage submissions periodically. You do seem like a good person, and I hope you realize that there's nothing wrong with you. People don't hate you I promise.
i don't know who you are but i'd like to hug you if that's okay, to be completely honest i really don't feel like i deserve the nice comments you've made, i think i have a lot of trauma with socialising and friends and peers that tends to get triggered a lot, i don't really know how to fix that part of me but when i first saw this message pop up i went and had a bit of a cry /gen/pos i really, really appreciate your kind words and reassurances, i know logically there are plenty of reasons for being being offline and not interacting and they're all incredibly valid, i hope i don't come across as whiny or as though i have a lack of understanding for it, i try and say a lot that irl stuff always comes before fandom socmed stuff
