honestly that's such a wonderful question, thank you so much.

i also think that mnho is Really observant and aware of people around him and this comes out so beautifully when he is with flx. to me it feels like he is very aware of the boundaries that they both have and how their needs overlap and where they don't. both of them generally strike me as people who just have a lot of respect for each other's boundaries, which I think some people see as them not being close or maybe overtly awkward together. i can understand that line of thinking!

but to me it really does seem like they both are aware of their differences and honour them and each other plenty. i also think that they are both willing to bend their boundaries for each other a little bit specifically because they know the other wouldn't demand it. does that make sense? it feels like mnho indulges flx a lot when it comes to skinship or maybe other forms of affection that do not come to mnho as naturally as they do to flx. he is willing to get out of his comfort zone a bit as long as it makes flx feel comforted and loved. and i think that is my favourite whipped mnho moment - his willingness to adjust to what flx needs.