a fan · 12d
Hi, I have no idea what gender of people that hn and lk like to date, but i find it highly unlikely that they are dating each other. it just seems super messy and bonkers to date your coworker. in their case it would be a coworker that you could not even change to a new job if things did not work out. i think dating someone in your active band seems like a crazy chance to take.
i love reading fic about them(fictional stories where they would not have to deal with the consequences of dating a coworker!), i believe they could be queer, it just does not make sense to me that they would be dating right now.
hi hi
you were really sweet so i’m not dissing you, i’m just wordy and long winded and have a lot to say.
you could be right, but just like I don’t think my answering you is going to change your mind, you sending this to me doesn’t really change mine. and I do think there’s something real when it comes to mnsg.
firstly, god I wish people didn’t date coworkers, i’ve personally NEVER worked anywhere where there wasn’t at least one couple or affair or tension having group on the staff. Would I date a coworker???? never willingly. but I don’t think that’s ever really stopped anyone.
I don’t think anyone CHOOSES to fall for a coworker, I don’t think anyone chooses who they fall for at all really. I think if people got to pick you they were in love with we wouldn’t call it falling in love, we wouldn’t call that love at all really, cause that would be logical and analytic decision making, and that takes so much humanity and personal feelings out of it, bleh not for me. falling in love is just that, it’s not a choice.
so yeah it probably IS messy and IS a little crazy for them to be in a relationship, but that doesn’t make it impossible. because you know what I think would be just as messy, a group of 8 men where two of them are clearly in love with each other and ARENT able to do anything about it. imagine that, imagine a world or scenario where the feelings are there, because again they’re feeling, and we can’t control them, and they didn’t have an outlet, they just had to pine and wallow in their feelings for ever. wouldn’t that be worse???? wouldn’t that be messier??? having to deal with jealousy or presumed unrequited love? that’s messy. that’s MESSIER in my opinion.
it’s definitely bonkers to date a coworker, I agree, but that doesn’t mean bonkers doesn’t happen. and i’m sure it’s been rough at times, I feel like we can even predict when things might have been rough for them in these circumstances. but people date coworkers, lots of people date lots of people that they shouldn’t. and jsut cause they’re celebrities doesn’t mean they don’t have the same messy lives behind the scenes.
