hi anon, to answer your question... fortunately, i never caught myself in that position before. when i fall in love with someone, i never feel insecure when i'm around them because i believe that i have my own value too. so basically, it's like we're equal but in different things. maybe the case that you brought is when when you feel like they're out of your league... but the thing is, sometimes we didn't see the best version of ourselves. i'm not an expert in this but fall in love with someone that can make you believe that you're worth anything, with someone that can bring out the best version of you not because you fall in love with them but because you try to be. have a nice day, anon 🤍