Being a man who likes women means I am basically a cishet white guy. The fact that I don't want to have sex with them would label me as asexual but they don't know that. To every woman out there, I'm just like every other guy, I'm a threat to them. I am in an area where feminism still strongly sends a message of "kill all men". By being male I am automatically excluded from tons of queer events, because inclusive here means excluding men. To accept that I can like women, I would first need to change my gender, which I am not going to do, so I just keep feeling ashamed of that.