Depends on what you mean by meant. I don't think anyone is completely predestined to be anything when they are born, because it isn't all about genetics. Their childhood will define how they are; whether they are raised as a gifted child, a spoiled brat, abandoned, abused, etc. will have a lasting impact. This is why I think most neurotypicals cannot be good parents: they simply do not understand this and will believe they still can live their own lives while parenting.