anonie · 3mo
https://retrospring.net/@maetbin/a/113265282966556159
Respectfully sis you need to put the phone down you're clearly entering dangerous territory between this and being annoyed by people calling mattbin father and son when you know it's something they themselves used, shipping is supposed to be fun but also respectful you have your own view which is fun but other fans can interpret their relationship how they want especially given that its not something that came out of thin air it has basis. Mattbin aren't in an actual relationship shipping is just for fun its not disrespectful or infantilizing to call them things they've called themselves this is such a huge throw off especially the random asking for proofs that aren't from haobin fans??? Do you think haobin fans asked Mattbin to refer to each other as brothers???? You cannot project your perception of them onto them, I was excited for your comeback but you're giving bitter and juvenile I'm disappointed considering I've loved all your works and you were one of the few rps accounts I followed
Interpretation is very much up to fans but there's a huge difference between simply calling them dad and son and going into sungseokers retros and harrassing them over shipping because mattbin are "dad and son". Shipping is very much fun for me and i do not take it seriously at all, it is people that do that's the problem. If you haven't been in a position where you've been harassed over your shipping preferences... then idk how to explain this to you. Its okay if you are disappointed at me for speaking up, there is nothing i can do about that bc someone will always disagree with my views. I wish you understood my pov but its okay if you dont. And genuinely? I don't want to talk about haobinners anymore i have not had any pleasant encounters with them save for a handful close friends so idk... i am biased. They've hurt me so idk how to look at them in a 100% positive light so i dont want to talk about them. Simply because it's like digging into all wounds. The infantalizing issue is not simply mattbin related its a problem ive had since BP because the general fandom used to infantalise matthew and maybe it is not disrespectful to you but it is to me. I've always been respectful. Whenever i spoke up, it was because that same courtesy was not given to us sungseokers. Yep.
