a howdy dowdy stranger · 10mo
I'm not any of the last anons but I just wanted to say after reading your responses that your openness to give people, especially questioning systems, advice and/or even affirmation is amazing, and even if I'm too nervous to ask questions myself, sometimes when people mention things I can relate to I even feel affirmed with your answers sometimes. Not sure if this is weird to say, it's also hard to word, but I hope it makes sense lol
this is really sweet!!! thank you anon. I thiiiiink it's maybe been said a few times but the main reason we're really happy to do all that is because of how alone we were when figuring out we were a system. we had one close friend who was also sort of flying by the seat of their pants and had another system telling us not to explore anything and yeah. ended up suppressing stuff for a long time and it led to a lot of doubt! so I'm very glad we can be for other people what we always wished someone was for us.
it's completely understandable if you're too nervous to ask!! but yeah I promise we don't bite. people only answer if they want to which means they always answer trying to be kind! but still, no pressure, and im glad our answers to others is affirming to you as well! :]
