a howdy dowdy stranger · 9mo
honestly, even though being a system can feel so uncertain and scary i think i’m happy. im really still happy that im a system. obviously everything doesn’t go smoothly, i mean between my headmates and i, it didn’t go perfectly at the start but we’re accepting of each other and we’re able to communicate about our feelings [only sometimes] and honestly, im really happy with that! im so happy to be a system, im happy to have met my headmates! i love them with my entire heart and i thank them for protecting me everytime. i would love to see more system positivity so thank you for your page. i really love my headmates and even though our opinions might not always align, i think they’re still important to me. i think i may be able to embrace them and myself in a better way.
i love this ask so much i don't even really have much to add. it's just nice to see and makes me smile. being a system definitely isn't always easy and in-system friction and conflict is definitely a thing, but I'm so glad that despite that, you've got a positive outlook on things! and yeah I think that coming to learn to love and understand your headmates honestly very naturally improves your understanding and acceptance of yourself too. they're a part of your collective whole at the end of the day! this is such a nice message thank you anon. :]
