With all due respect, I do not owe you "a feminist understanding" about "yuri in fandom" due to something called having a life outside of fandom's yaoi vs yuri twitter politics. Please take a step back and realize just how unserious and ridiculous you sound. And for the record, I literally live in the Middle East as a lesbian woman, I think I would know a thing or two about feminism. I have no desire or any reason to justify myself to you, or anyone else.
You are truly a fucking idiot for telling me all this because you clearly know nothing about me, because anyone who has held a conversation with me about my preferences in media knows already that I am deeply uncomfortable with depictions of sexual assault and I avoid it. Just because I don't go out of my way to comment on it, doesn't mean you can assume these things about me.
And are you...are you hearing yourself...Why would we be friends if we held such opposing beliefs on such serious matters. I am one of the feminist lesbians they are friends with...All up in arms just because I'm not fighting the Battle of yaoi vs yuri...God. You seriously need to go outside and pick up a football I'm so serious