anon · 2mo
hi!!! rant ahead im sawry but my friends r being so 🫤 lately like they would guilt-trip and gaslight me every time ndi ako nakakasama sa hangouts nila. they would make jokes that is for me ay sensitive na and nakakasakit. idk how do i tell them ab it since alam q na ugali nila and i know how they'd respond PLS PLS WHAT DO I DO
hii bb sorry for only responding now!! omg that sounds shitty….even if may negative feelings sila, being passive aggressive about it isn’t productive. i think you should just be honest and confront them kasi skirting around it or playing it off doesn’t really help. apologize for not being able to go as often but also let them hear about your side. baka hindi lang sila aware bakit hindi ka nakakasama and nagkakaroon sila ng ibang assumptions. nip it in the bud kaysa mag build pa kayo ng further resentment sa isa’t isa. you can try asking them din na hey do you sincerely feel ba like i’m not present as often? and you can work from there by understanding feelings nila then communicate your own. it’ll all work out, just don’t be afraid of having the hard conversations!! <3
