the problem with some parts of the fandom is that they will often infantilize the younger person in the relationship & treat them like a perpetual victim despite the fact that i mentioned 273487234982 times that TAEHYUNG IS. INEVITABLY. THE PROBLEM. because of his unchecked bpd & that the fic was him coming to terms with how to heathily examine his Big Feelings & that tokki hyung isn't weird for being patient with him. they said i wrote taehyung WEIRD & when i pointed out his feelings/reactions were based off mine, suddenly i was a CREEP !!!!

anyway, i decided trying to be patient & understanding with people was just impossible when it came to the anonymous option on retrospring so now i'm just ready to laugh at whoever pearl clutches. like, it's a fanfiction it's really just not that deep anymore.