i feel like people also feel comfortable "joking" abt hwc's masculinity bc they see it as a predominantly "stage" thing? so therefore, to them it's just a performance and he "isn't actually like that". it's odd bc not only is that not true, but like you pointed out a few days ago, hcngjccng is also different off-stage 😭 "oh hwc is different off-stage so that's what i'll reference when i write him. omg look at hcngjccng here, isn't he so dom [video of him on stage]" it just cracks me up sometimes