BOMG Client · 4mo
Radio host story #1
I fell in love with someone and in my eyes, i think i gave him anything and prioritise him. everytime we have an argument i always take the blame because i love him more than our simple arguments. But when i confronted him why he did not fight for me when i feel he is in the wrong, he claims that he didnt have it in him because he had been in a toxic relationships for 10 years so having 2 years of relationship with me, he didnt think to take my side
Sender-nim... You must be really sad and feel wronged. It's not and never will be your fault that he was in toxic in relationship and in my eyes he should deal with himself first before going to another relationship.
I know it must be hard for you when you listen to his past, as it's for him, but you know, it's not your job to heal, fix, or accompany him. You're not a volunteer, you're in a relationship.
Always remember to take care of yourself and your feelings first, okay? If it's feeling overwhelming and too much, and he give no sign of changing. Please take a step back and get back your freedom. If you're willing to be by his side on his journey, then you should always communicate well with him so he would know your feelings and teach him how to love someone again, properly.
Thank you for sharing this story with me, sender-nim! I will be waiting for another story <3
