Who need motivation when you have me?

BOMG Client · 4mo

Radio host story #3 part 1

On our 13th month together he couldnt take it anymore and broke up with me. The loser in me begged, and begged, and begged for 3 months straight to get back together even when he said he was not ready.

I asked him everyday if he is in love with me again or not and eventually he said I was pushing it.

Then within those 3 months I grew close with someone and after he knew I might end up with him, it only took him 1 month to get me back on my knees for him

Sorry for my late reply, sender-nim! Wow, I think there's something wrong with him. He didn't want you when you were begging for his love, then came back when he knew he couldn't have you any more? You shouldn't come back for him PLEASE SENDER-NIM. I need a happy ending with you and that new person or just anyone that doesn't make you beg for his love. I think you need to RUN from him because this sounds like something that will happen again in the future...

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anything · 4mo

You know what's funniest thing in this world? See in the mirror and laugh at yourself

That's my morning routine everyday :)

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ssulyuon · 2 answers · 4mo

Is July treating you better than June did?

Sadly, I must say July is way worse than June but thanks god everything's getting better in August!

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BOMG Client · 4mo

Radio host story #2

I was a simp to my bf. Literal simp. Loser simp. Then I got busy with life and I had a bf at that time. I always came home really late at night and hence each night only I had about 1 hour or 2 at max. My now ex told me he been feeling lonely and I didnt want him to be lonely so I granted him his longtime wish: to be in multiple relationship.

And soon after, he dates (until now) his member and once I saw him called his bf with a nickname I gave him. And now we have broken up.

That's really sad but I will say you have chosen the right step for breaking up with him. You both might meet at the right time with the same mindset, but as you grew up you both realize you want more in life. You're getting busier and he found something else to fill the gap. And I know it really well that you don't sit well with him having multiple relationships.

If you ask me about my opinion over his decision, I think that's a bad choice. If I was on your boyfriend position, I will fill the void by finding new hobbies rather than looking for new person who have great possibilities to hurt me. And giving them the nickname you gave him is... A big betrayal.

I hope you won't blame yourself for that, sender-nim. You made the right choice. Don't stay in relationship where you feel like you're getting betrayed on, even when you're giving a consent. I hope you find happiness in life with or without a boyfriend. If you do find the one, I hope he understands your schedule and maybe someone who have the same schedule as you! Have a nice day, sender-nim! (And sorry for the late replies)

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BOMG Client · 4mo

Radio host story #1

I fell in love with someone and in my eyes, i think i gave him anything and prioritise him. everytime we have an argument i always take the blame because i love him more than our simple arguments. But when i confronted him why he did not fight for me when i feel he is in the wrong, he claims that he didnt have it in him because he had been in a toxic relationships for 10 years so having 2 years of relationship with me, he didnt think to take my side

Sender-nim... You must be really sad and feel wronged. It's not and never will be your fault that he was in toxic in relationship and in my eyes he should deal with himself first before going to another relationship.

I know it must be hard for you when you listen to his past, as it's for him, but you know, it's not your job to heal, fix, or accompany him. You're not a volunteer, you're in a relationship.

Always remember to take care of yourself and your feelings first, okay? If it's feeling overwhelming and too much, and he give no sign of changing. Please take a step back and get back your freedom. If you're willing to be by his side on his journey, then you should always communicate well with him so he would know your feelings and teach him how to love someone again, properly.

Thank you for sharing this story with me, sender-nim! I will be waiting for another story <3

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BOMG Client · 5mo

Shall we play "Radio Host"? I give you stories and you can interact and give your thoughts and we pick up from there

OOOOOOOh, that sounds cool!!! Share me your stories, sender-nim!

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Rosié · 10 answers · 6mo

What's the one thing that would instantly makes you happy?

Umm... cakes?

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ssulyuon · 6 answers · 5mo

What are your biggest fears when it comes to relationships?

Imagining how we break up. There's no such thing as eternal unless you're a Vampire.

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ssulyuon · 6 answers · 5mo

How do you cope with jealousy or insecurity in a relationship?

I- I talked to my partner about that, only a little of it actually, and keep the rest for myself. Well, I need to let go, right? I read angst.

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ssulyuon · 5 answers · 5mo

Are you a DM or timeline person?

I'm a Timeline person! Even though there are days when I prefer to become DM person but it's pretty rare

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ssulyuon · 3 answers · 5mo

What is your biggest fear, and how do you cope with it?

I think it's to fully show my emotion to someone. I don't cope, I run wink

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ssulyuon · 4 answers · 5mo

Mountains or beaches, why?

I prefer staying at home :]

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ssulyuon · 6 answers · 6mo

I need some advice on how to break the habit of sleeping so so so late. Care to tell?

I usually put my phone beside me, playing an apartment hunting video or just random vlog. Then suddenly I'm in dream land?!

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JEONGHAN, Y. · 6mo

son

Heung Min

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ssulyuon · 6 answers · 6mo

What’s your idea of a perfect date night?

Just watching movie together while commenting on the movie, trying to find similarities with our lives. Lot of laughs and giggles!