BOMG Client · 4mo
Radio host story #2
I was a simp to my bf. Literal simp. Loser simp. Then I got busy with life and I had a bf at that time. I always came home really late at night and hence each night only I had about 1 hour or 2 at max. My now ex told me he been feeling lonely and I didnt want him to be lonely so I granted him his longtime wish: to be in multiple relationship.
And soon after, he dates (until now) his member and once I saw him called his bf with a nickname I gave him. And now we have broken up.
That's really sad but I will say you have chosen the right step for breaking up with him. You both might meet at the right time with the same mindset, but as you grew up you both realize you want more in life. You're getting busier and he found something else to fill the gap. And I know it really well that you don't sit well with him having multiple relationships.
If you ask me about my opinion over his decision, I think that's a bad choice. If I was on your boyfriend position, I will fill the void by finding new hobbies rather than looking for new person who have great possibilities to hurt me. And giving them the nickname you gave him is... A big betrayal.
I hope you won't blame yourself for that, sender-nim. You made the right choice. Don't stay in relationship where you feel like you're getting betrayed on, even when you're giving a consent. I hope you find happiness in life with or without a boyfriend. If you do find the one, I hope he understands your schedule and maybe someone who have the same schedule as you! Have a nice day, sender-nim! (And sorry for the late replies)
