anon. · 3mo
what do you do if you know your s/o is cheating on you and you have pretty solid proof of it, and you don’t think that they know you know but you do know and you’ve known for the past like year but never had solid proof until now and you meet so many new people and end up developing a small crush on someone else and want to end the relationship honestly but don’t want to lose the person but you really just want to be single and not have to worry about the stress of a relationship (not every relationship is stressful i know that but some like this are)
sounds like the relationship has run its course, no? and it sounds like you had answered your question then and there, anon. truthfully, i'm surprised you had managed to stick around as long as you did despite the cheating, but now that you've outwardly expressed your desire to be single, that pretty much tells you what you should do, i believe. of course there's the possibility of losing that person, but i think honesty and bringing up what you know takes priority at this point. and if i'm being truthful, a relationship like this doesn't sound healthy or beneficial to any of you when there are skeletons in the closet like this. of course i'm just an outsider giving my opinion, but this can only go on for so long, right? especially when you know what you want. i hope you'll be able to communicate with this person and have a genuine conversation, no holds barred.
