like for myself?? hmmmmm not really tbh... i had no fascinating Aha moment, i knew from a pretty young age (though like a lot of young lesbians around that time it took a bit to accept the capital-L Lesbian label....) and i've been out since i was 18 / for 17-ish years (since late 2006) now lol. oh but lance bass coming out was the inspo moment for me 😂