nonny · 3mo
My favorite is one of the people harassing you writes dark ptn fic but they're very adamant that they won't write noncon so its okay. They're not like those proshipppers! I think it's so funny that they can write other forms of abuse and power imbalances but think they have a moral superiority stance because they're not writing noncon.
i see it SOOOOOO often... and it's ok to have lines!! like i said in another answer, i don't vibe with a lot of "dead dove" fandom (tho i do have oomfs who consider themselves that) because i don't like stuff that's like... dark or meant to make you feel bad, most of the time. i want my age gap incest to be HAPPY AND SWEET, ok? but i don't think that makes me more moral than people who go the other direction with it.
also not to get on a tangent, but it's kind of worrisome when people do this in a way. i don't know what the person you saw writes specifically, but for example, if someone writes lord/servant type fiction, that is essentially dubcon! that is a problematic power dynamic! like you say. boss/employee creates a dynamic where you can't guarantee consent either, and is a common trope even among anti types. so if you DON'T recognize that and think it's perfectly equal and healthy... that's concerning to me
