Re: that one ask about ptn noncon, yea exactly. It's one thing if they say they don't like noncon and don't want to write it, but it's acting self righteous when their fic is still about abuse that makes it worse. The logic that bosses abusing employees doesn't happen in real life and it's somehow less bad is what makes these mental gymnastics to stay pure look even worse. They'll do actual abuse apologist just to maintain these purity standards instead of making it a preference or boundary thing.