Haha… I don’t think any of you cheaters fully grasp that cheating wasn’t just you finding someone beautiful/handsome, smart, funny, and fascinating. That was just attraction; what you had with your current partner is something real. This wasn’t even in the same dimension as any of that, of what is now, to me, “the usual stuff.”.

What it was is this:
For a fleeting instant, you were feeling something you’d never felt before. Something so rare that you feel you could have gone through several lifetimes and yet never experienced For a fleeting instant, without you even knowing or trying, that brief attraction made you touch the universe.

And? Is that fleeting attraction enough to hurt someone who loves you wholeheartedly? It is terrible to know that they gave their heart and unconditional love to someone who abused their trust and took their love for granted. And it is equally terrible to know that they will never know if things would have been different had they met you earlier and made you fall madly in love before you met the person you cheated them on with.