512
litol catto · 19h
Delilah, I'm sorry if this overstepping but I'm currently in a fight with my boyfriend, and based on what you've shared on your timeline I think you might be able to help. Whenever we argue, he always apologizes right away. At first, I thought this was a good sign, but now it's become a pattern that really frustrates me. He doesn't seem to want to acknowledge his mistakes and just jumps straight to an apology. Yesterday, he told me that we keep fighting because I always bring up even the smallest mistakes he makes, even though he's already apologized. After that, he stopped talking to me, and now I feel really guilty. What should I do?
hello, i hope peace has found you when you read this. i want you to understand first that what he just did is a ‘gaslighting’ where he put you in the guilty seat in order to avoid his own guilt. me personally, i do condone you to take a time for yourself, be it a day or two, before you decided to confront him again. i hold no right to judge but if he always react that way if any problem arise, maybe you need to approach him differently. try to ask him, why are you behaving that way? or is there any reason you always avoid conflict? try to find the reason behind his behavior. after he seemed to calm down then proceed to share with him your feelings. that is all i can say about this because i am no therapist or whatsoever, i hope this might help.
litol catto · 6d
Is there any chance I could somehow plant daisy in your ribs?
litol catto · 8d
Why you despair so?
litol catto · 8d
Erza! Just stopping by to tell you how I ADORE your writings. Such captivating use of words. I found myself deeply moved by mere string of words. Please, continue to share your magnificent piece of writings and I'll gladly consume every word from them.
omg hi.. thank you for swinging by, your words have found me grateful beyond what language can express. it is a joy to share, and a greater joy to know that my words have found a place in you. i will try and continue to write with this thought close to heart, knowing someone like you is waiting on the other end <3
litol catto · 10d
Erza, I hope you don’t mind me reaching out. I noticed your tweet yesterday about being stuck in a writer's block, and I thought I’d share a prompt that might help. “Write about two characters who have been fighting for so long, they can’t even remember what started it.” Since you enjoy writing heart-wrenching tales, I thought it could be up your alley. But please feel free to disregard this if it adds to your burden instead of easing it.
litol catto · 12d
This Saturday, I found your writing. Amazing, leaving deep impression in me behind. But I would love some explanation, why is it never about the watermelon at all?
mm, the watermelon serves as a metaphor for a fresh imprint on 'I' being, a new experience that lingers like an aftertaste, echoing in 'I' mind whenever 'I' shakes hand with someone. anyway, thank you for the kind words about my writing sender! i hope it weave a thread of joy into the fabric of your Saturday <3