ii personally dont use the f slur so iim not gonna comment too much on that, but iin my experiience iin queer communiitiies iirl (outsiide off of the iinternet) (no way…) ii have seen the f slur used liike that omg ii liiterally had a convo wiith one of my bffs thiis morniing actuslly and that was what he called hiis outfiit 😭😭 anyways . a lot of slurs CAN be used iin a posiitiive way (though usually only when diirected at one’s self?? liike. calliing yourself a criipple iin liike a way you iidentiify wiith iit rather than iinsultiing yourself) and ii ahve seen them beiing used iin posiitiive ways … iive never ever seen the r slur used iin a truly reclaiimable way

many thiings personally but maiinly the fact rhat other slurs can be put iin a posiitiive liight , and other slurs are a lot more …? targeted iin general. tell me have you ever seen someone use the r slur iin a posiitiive liight..? EVER?? and even when. Some people. cough. “try” to “reclaiim” iit they end up usiing iit as an iinsult whiich iis so dumb lol do u guys even know what reclaiimatiion iis … liike esp a good example iis iin the black communiity niigga iis so wiidely reclaiumed.. OH. plus the r slur iis used on diisabled people as liike. a whole!! liike. iimagiine someone wiith autiism calliing someone wiith ds the r slur and usiing the defense that they can reclaiim iit! that doesnt make sense to me personally because that experiience of diisabiiliity iis so so diifferent and iit’s. honestly a very compliicated topiic yk?? iit’s personally just better not to use iit at all iin my eyes ^_^ and . keep iin miind thiis iis my perspectiive as a viisiibly diisabled miixed person who liives iin a more southern area … my word iis not law iit’s just my thoughts……. thank u so much for askiing btw ii love love love answeriing questiions liike thiis