ii personally dont use the f slur so iim not gonna comment too much on that, but iin my experiience iin queer communiitiies iirl (outsiide off of the iinternet) (no way…) ii have seen the f slur used liike that omg ii liiterally had a convo wiith one of my bffs thiis morniing actuslly and that was what he called hiis outfiit 😭😭 anyways . a lot of slurs CAN be used iin a posiitiive way (though usually only when diirected at one’s self?? liike. calliing yourself a criipple iin liike a way you iidentiify wiith iit rather than iinsultiing yourself) and ii ahve seen them beiing used iin posiitiive ways … iive never ever seen the r slur used iin a truly reclaiimable way