i have a discord though i do not have my own server if thats what you mean. i am very inclined against starting one too, to be frank ^^; i typically prefer chatting one on one and find it hard to juggle conversations in a group without getting overwhelmed 😵‍💫 i find myself wanting to stand back and let others take the floor and end up not coming back 😔

as a result i am also not an active member in a server either, though i have joined a handful (trembling coughing blood im sorry) . im afraid i do not have any reccomendations for you here, but i do hope you get to have meaningful conversations soon, all the same! good luck!

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