Omg do I seem like that?? I have no idea haha I feel like it's cause when I joined a lot of people followed me cause they knew who I was so I got a LOT of moots all at once - i didnt really do anything. But tbh I only talk to maybe 3 people in my dms regularly?? People come in to scream about fics and such but actual FRIEND friends who I talk to every day and chat about things that aren't fics I only have like 3 haha